Jangan tikam orang dari belakang

ada orang cuba nak mencari kesalahan orang lain tapi tidak bijak menyorokkan kelemahan sendiri...

it happened to me, unexpectedly n so badly by some one u know..

this Ms H has resigned ..however she has been identified to be a witness for one of our court case..it is my duty to arrange a discussion/meeting between our lawyers and witnesses before a hearing..we fixed a date for the meeting on 23rd feb.

so i called and smsed her since the past two weeks, no reply..even the operator also cant get her line after so many times try to call..and told me, the line seems not active..

then i called her new office last wednesday after sms and tipon x berjawab ..managed to talk to her staff and asked her to convey the message....at the same time i wrote a letter to call her for the meeting and it was signed by my CEO..last friday after the letter has been signed i tried to fax to her office but the fax cant go thru.

we delivered the letter to her office on monday..she only read it (i guess) yesterday..and called me..she bole tanya i kenapa last minute antar surat...yes, surat hantar lewat tapi dah maklumkan awal via sms and ur staff..i told her i still keep my sms..when i told her tat i masih simpan sms tu, bole pulak tetiba dia kata" handphone saya ada problem kot"..in fact i told her, my operator called u pun x dapat -

rupanya i baru tahu dari my boss that , sebelum dia called i semalam dia da bercakap dengan my ceo, siap ada buat surat, questioning nape we lambat hantar surat makluman mesyuarat..have explained tat to my boss..she understand..

nak salahkan i ke..u sendiri dah ngaku handphone u ada prob dah lama, hi takkan u biarkan phone u tu berprob lama sangat walhal every body knows ur bisness requires u to have such a good handphone to communicate; i dont think phone u ada prob sebab sms yg i hantar tu berstatus "deliver" u baca sms i cuma u ignore kan..lagi satu, takkan staff u tu tak sampaikan mesej i kat u, walhal  u n her communicate most of the time (lagi pulak she is ur partner too) and pada masa tu pun u bole terus call i..bukannya u xder my contact no.i..

tak seronoklah u buruk2 kan i camtu..

so semlm i nak bagitau dia meeting as scheduled was postphoned, she was engaged so again i left the message to her staff (same one whom i conveyed my message last week)

tadi i dapat cakap ngan dia, tanye dia dah dapat mesej semlm..dahhle pulak (boleh pulak tersampai mesej tu..) em arranging another meeting, dan mintak masa dan tarikh dia untuk adjustkan dengan masa peguam; dan i pun dah buat surat utk ceo sign..i tulis kat one of the para" untuk makluman puan, masa dan tarikh bagi perbincangan adalah sebagaimana kesesuaian masa yang dipersetujui oleh puan dan peguam kami"

nanti, jangan kate i pulak memandai2 setkan masa dan tarkh tanpa rujuk kat u; anything can happen;

kalau  cakap lemah lembut dgn orang bukan makna u tak tikam orang dari belakang; some peoples are like tat..pengajarannya..jangan ingat orang cakap baik2 dengan u tu sebaik hatinya, ada yang pura2 je...ape tu perumpamaan kata "kura-kura dalam perahu" eh betul ke? atau lembut gigi dari lidah...