Its all about LUV to u

i have to admit that it is always be a big challenge to monitor and supervise ur teenage kids..especially zaman sekarang ni..di luar sana macam2 cabaran dan dugaan..yang menakutkan

for instance, soal couple di masa remaja; i always sort of meracun fikiran the two that now is not the right time to have a couple...the right time will come but definetely not now..jika sekarang mereka mencari pasangan semasa di alam persekolahan, banyak cons. daripada pros. pembelajaran akan terganggu, fokus pada pelajaran semestinya terabai... dalam meracun2 fikiran the two terlepas juga si kakak melayan kehendak remajanya..dan akhirnya tertangkap by me n hubby...it was before, i believe she has changed now especially this year she will be sitttng for a big exam..

berkali2 i menasihatkan kakak that she has to be patient, jauhi perangkap hati...Allah telah menentukan pasangan kita, tunggu waktu yang lebih sesuai, waktu sebenar akan datang; yes, i understand jiwa dan perasaan remaja..i experienced the same too; i hope she will remain wat she is now...melainkan di belakang i n my hubby she still continue it..that was something yang we had no power to know...we hope she is being honest , all the time with us..so she will be blessed by Allah...in things she do..remember that kakak..

as for nafis, well u know boys..sort of gila2..today he like this girl, next week..."mama, i have another girlfren"..but i know him, main2 aje..but still not a good attitude..dalam hati yang ada taman...pun sikit2 we sembur him racun serangga jugak!

in term of pergaulan..no outing personally with frens unless accompanied by us..alhamdulillah they follow the rules so far; nak kuar ngan kawan-ok..we sent them to the place and be around there too..atau kekadang parents kawan2 dia pun ada sama, so we let them go and have fun..for sure not every month, once in every three to four months..

"Mama dan ayah ni tak sporting macam parents kawan2 lah..." well ok...our answer is simple.."then you go and be their childrenlah"...

senyap terus mereka.............

"my dear kids...there are always be a reason for each and every action and decision we made...never without a reason..."

me and hubby maybe berbeza dengan parents yang lain..yang mungkin ada langsung tak pedulikan anak2, pergaulan, pelajaran anak2..yang mana mereka hendak - parents yang jaga anak2 mereka atau parents yang abaikan anak mereka..you choose and decide

one thing we assure u..

its all about luv to u...........

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